Hi everyone,
I was hoping to be able to come on and give a positive update on how things were going, but unfortunately not.
Over the school holidays, YD was hospitalised for a night after being suicidal. She had stockpiled a load of Hubby's medication - enough to knock out several elephants - and so we took her in on the advice of the Family Support worker. She was discharged the following morning and assessed by the CAMS team.
She then had appointments with CAMS and we thought we were beginning to make progress. It turns out she told both CAMS and the Family support worker a load of really hurtful lies - that Hubby beats me on a regular basis, that I leave home for weeks at a time, that we do lines of coke on the coffee table etc etc. Luckily, the family support worker and CAMS both realise that these are total lies and have been supporting us and trying to help her.
This morning, after a small argument, she went off to school as normal. At 10am, the family support worker rang and asked me to go and collect her from school. She had told them she was planning on hanging herself in the toilets and therefore would need 100% supervision. So, off we went to collect her. Two hours later, after the police had been called in to escort her from the premises, and am ambulance had been called to deal with her, I left the building in tears and came home after she screamed at me in front of teachers, police, paramedics etc to just "F off!".
Hubby is now dealing with her as the ambulance have taken her to A&E. We've been on the phone all morning to CAMS and the Crisis Team asking them to come out urgently and assess her, as we both feel that she needs in-patient care. My nerves are shredded and I just cannot cope with her anymore. I feel like we're being passed from pillar to post and back again this morning - not to mention the waste of resources in dealing with her.
Hubby believes that she is mentally ill and needs help. Part of me thinks the same, and part of me think she is being a manipulative little madam who is loving all the attention and having people run themselves ragged after her. I know that probably makes me sound really unsmpathetic, and I don't mean to be, but I really have no idea how to cope with all of this.
Anyway, rant over. I shall be in bed seeking solace in chocolate and wine if anyone needs me.
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An update of sorts on the annorexic, self-harming suicidal 12 year old
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biffa85 · 12/09/2012 13:35
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