DS is 15 and undergoing assessment for SEN/ADHD/not sure.
He is very unhappy at school and has been for a long time. He has problems with focus and concentration, says he doesn't want to learn anything (I think because it all involves writing it down and he isn't good at this).
He was having private maths lessons for 3 months last winter and his tutor gave up, saying he couldn't teach DS anything - he just didn't retain it.
He doesn't really have any friends and is ostracised for being a loner/difficult.
I have talked to the local college and they won't take him until he either fails his GCSEs or gets thrown out of school for bad behaviour. He isn't badly behaved and all his teachers like him. He thinks he is disliked by everyone at school mainly for his strange behavioural tics.
Sorry for the uncoordinated posting, I just need to know what the heck to DO?
I haven't bought him new shoes for school as I was hoping that he wouldn't end up going back - now I know the college can't take him, I'm not sure.
I would home ed him if I could but I'm a lone parent and self employed - it would put me out of business and it would be hard to pick up again at my age after a year out.
Apart from that I tutored him through one GCSE in English last term and it was so hard. Like picking up soup with a fork.
Any suggestions?
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CuttedUpPear · 04/09/2012 22:34
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