I feel I am loosing my DD and that there is nothing I can do about it. She is choosing to live mostly with her father who has a house next door. The little time she spends with me is mostly filled with hate on her part, she picks on my accent and corrects my language, I cannot eat or drink on her presence as it disgusts her and asking her to follow any of my rules is met with confident 'no' and 'what you gonna do about it'. I am sure that is typical teenage thing but she is correct I cannot do anything about it. If she doesnt like something she simply walks out the door.
It is her father who decided and gives her, to me unknown, amount of pocket money, expensive things like mobile phone, computer etc, for a number of years. He also pays for a private school, arranged for face book, twitter. Now she told me she has a bank card. All of these decisions are taken without me and some of them against my wishes. Needless to say I find talking to her father very difficult, we have a turbulent history, he is a very nice person to the outside world and to our daughter but can be bully like and manipulative towards me. He would belittle me and put me down, sometimes dismiss my authority in front of her.
I know it is partly my fault as I allowed this to develop so far but I fear that if I seek a legal solution there would be very little in my favour now.
How do I get my child back?
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Loosing my 13old daughter
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zuzan · 04/07/2012 09:22
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