hi
I have 2 boys, aged 12 and 14
they are fighting all the time and its driving me crazy and utterly depressing
they are very competitive and like the same sport, which they play then fight about
the youngest is doing better in the sport than the older one and the older one is very jealous, but this takes the form od sneering comments and ignoring the young one, who gets angry and doesn't let the older one win whenever they play
please dont tell me to stop them playing the sport, thats like telling a fish no to swim
we live in a small house, there is nowhere to separate them when they start
they have separate friends but often the friends are away at their dads/grans etc. so then they are stuck in
we have absolutely no family help, no grandads or uncles or anyone to take them away or out for a little while, its just the 4 of us together all the time
please can anyone advise, really anyone who has been in this situation and found something that helps
we have taken away phones/x boxes etc, didnt make any difference, only made them worse as they spent even more time together
I suppose what upsets me most is my children seem to hate each other
I grew up like an only child, elder siblings a lot older than me and left home when I was small, so grew up with elderly parents in a quiet house
I thought having 2 kids close in age meant there would always be a friend there for them to play with, something I never had when I was young
now I can see how wrong I was
on paper they should get on great, similar interests, nice kids, both quite clever and both popular
but every things a horrible fight instead
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FayeGovan · 28/06/2012 09:25
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