DD (13) has had a very on-off relationship with a friend at school. A while ago it was very much OFF with the friend complaining to the school about DD. He said, she said - whatever.
A week ago they made up and seemed to be good friends again which delighted both myself and the other girl's mother.
The mother told me a couple of weeks ago that she had been laid off and was looking for something else but wasn't going to tell her DD until she had something sorted (we are all expats). She told me in the week she had another job and told her DD on Weds. Our kids finish school this Weds so the mother organised a farewell party for her DD last night which I heard about from other people.
The mother sent me a message this morning apologising for my DD not being invited. She said she's not aware that anything has happened in the past week but that her DD seems to bear grudges and she's sorry for any upset it will cause my DD if/when she finds out she was excluded. Of course DD WILL find out so I think I would like it to come from me. I want to be able to get DD to not react badly (and I can't blame her for being upset) because she probably won't ever see this friend again and I don't want them parting on bad terms (if they never contact each other again, well that's fine).
How do I broach this please?
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How do I handle this situation with DD and her friend?
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GiserableMitt · 23/06/2012 06:08
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