Dd and a boy, let's call him David both like each other. No problem there. Except dd's bff2 let's call her Carol, liked him too. Dd and David have been chatting on facebook, David asks her out and she says no. This goes on for a few days until she eventually feels she has to tell him it's because of Carol.
Dd tells David he should ask Carol out. David says no because he only wants to go out with dd. Dd then asks bff1 lets call her Wendy, what to do. Wendy says to tell Carol. Dd does this and Carol says she is fine with it and for dd and David to go out. So dd says she will think about it. Everything is fine and hunkydory.
Fast foward to bloody facebook. Wendy pm's dd having a go at her saying that whilst Carol said she was ok about dd and David, she actually wasn't and is very upset and that her (Wendy) is not going to talk to dd again. Dd then comes to me in tears, not understanding what she had done wrong.
In dd's eyes, she had told David the truth why she couldn't go out with him as her loyalty lay with her friend. She did what Wendy said and told Carol that David and her both liked each other. DD truly thought that Carol meant what she said that she was fine with it.
Anyway upshot, dd apologies to Carol and says she will not go out with David as her friends mean more. Everything is ok between them. David is cross though. Then Wendy pm's dd back and says she doesn't want to fight and can they still be friends (after dd sent an message back to her saying she had apologised and really didn't know what she had done wrong (apart of course from telling David about Carol's feelings for him). So dd thinks everything is now ok.
Dd goes to school this morning and whilst everything is okay with Carol, Wendy proceeds to ignore dd. So dd ended up hanging around with another friend. I should point out at this point that Wendy has fallen out with 6 other girls they were friendly with since year 7 and likes to be "Queen Bee". It's her way or the high way, but usually dd stands up to her.
I cannot obviously get involved too much apart from being there for dd, but I am just so bloody cross, plus my dad has just died 2 weeks ago and dd is finding it hard to cope with and this "situation" now is really not helping.
Anyone else had this teenage problem?
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Fimbo · 01/05/2012 16:57
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