How do I discourage a friendship? My DD (13) has this friend , a best friend she says who I really see as trouble.This friend is constantly in detention, is always out after school and seems to stay out til all hours and wants her friends (mainly DD) to do the same.She never seems to revise or be particularly concerned about schoolwork/homework.She is almost always late for lessons so consequently DD is.DD has just been taken off of punctuality report.I know what you must be thinking, I think it as well and it makes me angry.DD knows better, should know better and just stand up to her, say it's not worth the hassle/grief from her teachers and me.She has her own mind, I know.
This friend is also really obsessed with boys it's all she wants to do, hang out and wait for the boys, go looking for certain boys and I don't really want my DD tagging along.I don't think she really wants to either, she finds it all a bit same old, same old.She likes boys but she likes them as friends too.This friend is also planning losing her virginity, I was like WHAT????? She intends doing it in yr 10!
I don't know how to phrase this nicely but she seems very "sexual" A boy referred to her as having "blow job lips" (I hope I can put this, I hope it doesn't offend anyone) and this girl thought that that was a good thing!
I know for a fact that she has encouraged my DD to steal from me, she thought she could either steal money from my purse or take and use my debit card and I know she lies and she has encouraged my daughter to do the same.
Anyone been in a similiar situation? Any advice?
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Jabbie2 · 22/04/2012 10:40
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