I will try to keep this short... here is the story: Have been step mum to 2 teenage boys for past 4 years. They live with me and my husband (their dad)full time since their mum left 4 years ago. Youngest boy (13) has always been very " feminine"and I have had thoughts that he might be gay for a while now . He has no friends his own age who are boys and hangs out with girls whenever there is something on ..... This morning his phone alarm went off and I went downstairs to turn it off , he left it there by accident last night . I know I am bad, but I looked through his phone ...not all of the stuff but I noticed there were 2 videos on it so I opened them up . Not good :( He had filmed another boy (face shown first ) pulling his pants down and masturbating ..... Please someone help me out with this . My husband would flip if he finds this out . I have no-one to talk to about how I approach this sort of thing with him ... I know I was wrong to look up his phone , but he is only just gone 13 and I am horrified by what I saw .. I need some advice please .
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rumby · 20/11/2011 15:17
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