Hi all, my DD is 13 (14 in March), she is out with friends at the moment and has text me to ask if she can go with these 3 friends to an under 18 night, tonight, at a club about 20 minutes drive away. Never been before, never asked before! I text back saying 'no sorry you are too young'. Then I got a reply 'but X, X, and X are allowed to go and X's mum has said I can stay at X's after' - pleeeeaase'. So I sent another 'no I'm sorry, its up to them what they do but you are not allowed yet'.
I feel I have done the right thing, but I really was just after your opinions as to when you let your teens start doing stuff like this. FYI, we are (I think!) very fair with DD, she is allowed to a major town on the bus or train, has friends for sleepovers, goes to friends for sleepovers, has a boyfriend and he comes round here usually once a week and she sees him at weekends. (it has been almost 2 months so quite serious!! - lol).
Thanks, look forward to hearing your opinions - and also what goes on at these nightclubs for under 18s? - I just think that being at the very youngest end of the scale, it's worrying to think they all look older than what they actually are, and a 16 year old might get the wrong idea?!
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stellsie · 25/10/2011 16:07
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