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It does get better!

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noddyholder · 15/07/2011 09:53

My ds is 17 and has been an absolute nightmare the last year. Kevin the teenager with bloody knobs on. Things have really improved the last 6 weeks or so Nothing changed with us dp still strict and me still a nag but yesterday when I was out with him shopping two old ladies came up to me and said Your ds is a gentleman so rare to see! I was Shock and so proud He had moved himself and some bags out of the way to help them off the bus. 6 months ago he wouldn't even have seen them let alone helped. He was v keen for me to 'Text Dad'! And when i went to uber cool skate shop with him he normally died of embarrassment and pretended he didn't know me but yesterday was happy for me to chat to his friends who work in there and looked quite relaxed! Thank god! Hang in there everyone Smile!

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GypsyMoth · 15/07/2011 09:59

Have got through hell with 2 teen girls, just coming out of nightmare with dd2. Only to find ds,13 next month is starting..... 2 more boys after him to go too.

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share · 15/07/2011 10:04

Wonderful to read noddyholder.

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noddyholder · 15/07/2011 13:12

It is great the house feels like home again and not a battleground

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mumblechum1 · 15/07/2011 15:07
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cat64 · 15/07/2011 16:32

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Schtum · 18/07/2011 22:34

Great stuff, Noddy... There's light at the end of the tunnel.

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Tortington · 18/07/2011 22:38

Grin great stuff

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Theas18 · 18/07/2011 23:55

How lovely for you and him:-)

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sharbie · 19/07/2011 00:01

phew good news

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inkyfingers · 19/07/2011 18:37

Great news! Hang on and memorise any comments/compliments about your DCs that you get over the years from anyone who offers them!

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waycat · 19/07/2011 19:32

This is so good to hear. DS1 is 16 and DS2 is 15. I get the odd glimmer of light here and there, so Noddy's post gives me hope for the future!

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noddyholder · 20/07/2011 15:26

He weeded the front today Shock He wants something he must do

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waycat · 20/07/2011 18:50

Biddy I'm insanely jealous! It would be a miracle if either of my 2 merely put their heads out the door let alone actually setting foot outside! Grin

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waycat · 20/07/2011 18:51

Sorry I meant Noddy! Stupid IPod and it's predictive text!

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noddyholder · 20/07/2011 18:53

Grin. We have snack tea night on a wednesday sandwiches or beans on toast or something and he has just made us all cups of tea! It is really a bloody miracle. I am going with him and my mum to London tomorrow and I KNOW its going to be a pleasure instead of the usual torture(still want him to go to uni though to get rid its not THAt good!)

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sharbie · 20/07/2011 18:58

is he after some extra spending money for london perchance?

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noddyholder · 20/07/2011 19:00

Maybe. My mum will buy him something probably He needs swimming trunks but we are mainly going to visit and have a day out

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