This isn't a major problem but it's a niggle that's bugging me.
My 13 yr old DS gets £15 per month pocket money. £3 of which he has to save and the rest he can spend. He always asks for money at Christmas and birthday now too.
I am and always have been a saver by nature. His Dad (we are divorced) was/is a spender.
Now I suspect DS has more of his Dad's genes when it comes to money. Everytime we go out he wants to buy the latest this or that (technology, not clothes or fashion). It seems he buys the latest console or gets it for Christmas and then he wants to trade it in and get the latest upgraded version. Whatever is new out, he wants it. He takes good care of the stuff he has, so it's not as if he is "easy come, easy go" but he just seems to want, want, want.
At the moment, he wants to trade in his Xbox and his DSi for the latest versions, even though I don't think there is much difference and he will lose loads of money.
It really frustrates me as I really would have hoped that he would spend his money on the odd game every few months and be happy with that, but this constant need to replace things is driving me mad.
So, do I just let him get on with it and hopefully he will realise at some point that he is being daft and "latest" doesn't always mean "better" or do I put some restrictions on?
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theredhen · 04/07/2011 08:51
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