I posted a few months ago on Parenting asking how to keep the communication lines open with my teenage son. Got really good tips like finding time to chat in the car etc all of which have worked reasonably well.
However, I don't know if I am being unreasonable in trying to get him to engage more or not. I think the main issue now is education. He's gone from Primary school being so enthusiastic to High School where I get a grunt if I even dare ask how his day was! I know all of this is entirely normal for boys etc but I cant help but feel he could be pushing himself a bit more.
I found out today that some of his classmates had been picked to attend an event at the local Uni. Ds seems to think it was specifically awarded for behaviour, achievement type thing. I just felt a bit sad that he wasnt as this was the sort of thing he would be gauranteed to be picked for in primary. He is bright enough (in all the top cclasses) but I feel its this lack of enthusiasm for anything that is letting him down.
God I dont want this to sound like a pushy mum thread but how do I help him to work to his potential? I should add that he is very social at and outside school, lots of friends etc and I have made sure that nothing is going on. Just this attitude is driving me mad!! And he seems to have stopped reading too :(
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Keeping nearly 14 year old engaged? any tips?
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superdeeduper · 14/06/2011 22:02
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