My DD is just coming up to 13 and so far I have forbidden her facebook despite her claims that she's the only one who doesn't have it. Apart from hating everything about facebook my reason for denying it is that she is bullied enough at school as it is without opening her up to a whole new form of bullying. But, I'm now thinking that if I allow her to have it with the stipulation that I have to be a friend, if she gets bullied on facebook I have evidence to take the matter higher with the school. As it is, the bullying that girls do at school is very difficult to pin on them. Girls are so manipulative and the "queen bee" in her friendship group is being very unkind but in a way that is difficult to do something about. As is so often the case this girl is popular with the teachers and they can't see her doing anything but "helping" my DD. It may well be that they are already talking about my daughter on facebook but without her having access I can't tell. I do sound a bit paranoid don't I!!! But I really feel for my daughter who does struggle socially at school. What's the general concensus. Is this a silly reason for allowing Facebook and am I opening a can of worms?
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Maryz ·
15/06/2011 09:58
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