Bit of background. Dsd is 14, very very bright, doing very well at school, usually polite, eloquent and well liked by teachers and peers at school. She has some good, close friends who she spends lots of time with, usually baking cakes or watching dvd's.
But reading everything she writes on facebook you'd think she was an alcoholic, drug taking, illiterate uncared for soon to be teenage mum! I know she's just showing off but I worry that this will be a permanent and false record of how she behaves. Dp has spoken to her about the swearing and sex references etc. but her way of getting round it was defriend him!
What I'm asking I suppose is whether it's a huge problem, and if it is how do I deal with it without her defriending me too? Thanks
You're right colditz. The strange thing with dsd is that she's just not like that usually, but suppose it's better she vents and swears on facebook than in real life! I know some people can be very judgemental of teenagers so feel like commenting on everything she writes to explain that actually she's nothing like this really! And she can spell properly!