DS (12, nearly a teen) has always been prone to tantrums, they have become less frequent over the years but today he regressed and had a public tantrum at an athletics competition as he wanted to leave early to go to a party but DH was helping officiate so couldn't leave. DS had known for two days that he would not be able to leave (incidentally two of his friends were also going to be late as they were at the comp too).
Unfortunately embarrasment and stress due to trying to do two things at once led DH to make two cardinal errors'; he threatened to let DS go to the party, but then took him as he wanted to get away from him and he also effectively gave in to the tantrum by leaving earlier than he intended.
We are discussing what to do next, collect DS early from the party or confiscate his X-box (and Halo Reach!) for the two weeks until half term, he would have to be good until then to get it back.
He will go mad, and I try not to punish after the event usually but he was so awful I don't feel it can be ignored.
Or do we just guilt trip him by telling him how ashamed and hurt we were by his behaviour.
WWYD?
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wigglybeezer · 18/09/2010 18:50
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