Dr's infuriate me- ok so you're really not well but you have to wait till your boys are really unwell too, which could potentially be very dangerous for them, then you have to get all 3 of you to dr's (and infect half the other patients) while feeling like death warmed up.
Sorry but I thought high temp wasbthr key symptom. Round here you have to have that plus at least two other symptoms to qualify for Tamiflu. Or at least you did in August anyway. You do sound really poorly though - I would see a doctor in case it's something else serious though. Insist it's not SF and get a proper check over.
I had it, all the symptoms except runny nose. Could not move for three days. Then got pneumonia. Deep joy.