I hope someone can help me.
I'm currently pregnant after 4 rounds of IVF (2 fresh, 2 FET), which includes the premature birth and death of my son last year and a current pregnancy.
I lost my son due to cervix issues and in this pregnancy I have been told to be on strict bedrest till 34 weeks. I'm only 13 weeks! It's been a shit pregnancy so far where I've been diagnosed with hyperemesis gravidarum and had to have an operation to sew up my cervix which my body didn't react very well to and I spent 2 nights in hospital.
As we have frozen embryos left over we are planning on having more children and even though it's still early days for me I feel I need to start thinking, planning, organising financing for a surrogate for say this time next year to have our embryo on board. I know the process can be quite long? Essentially though there's no way I can have this child and get pregnant again and be on strict bedrest with a baby to look after. We have no family support near us.
What do I need to consider? Where do I even begin to look? The legal stuff: what do I need to know? Surrogacy in the U.K., US, India, Asia, Eastern Europe?!
We could probably pay ÂŁ20k ($US30k)... is this enough??
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Thinking of surrogacy: where to even begin?!
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