Need your opinion

26Mrdth · 2016-06-17 11:55:25

Hello, forum visitors! I don’t really realize how to tell such things to the public, cause all this is extremely private and important to me. I’m not a kind of a person, who can discuss problems with outness but this time I’m desperate. So, I’ll tell you in brief. I live with my hb 6 years already. And all this time we dream about our baby and face flat-out. From the first marriage I have an 8-year-old daughter, and this is my second one. For sure, husband loves my girl and they get on well, but anyway he wants his own child and it’s clear. My pregnancy was difficult enough and I faced many morbidities. Now I’ve got kidney failure and we struggle against it, but nothing works, God! Then the medication we’ve tried improved nothing. I often feel sick and sometimes even cannot pull myself together. Doctors say, the next pregnancy can result in something harrowing, there are so many risks. I don’t want even think about that and remember. So, the only way here, after all the procedures done, is a surrogate mother. It scares me, for sure. I’d been thinking about this for a long time and finally agreed. But I don’t know any clinic I can rely on, I’ve spent so much time reading and watching at medical websites, but I cannot make a choice. Some say the following clinic is great, some make huge complains which destroy my confidence in them. It seems I don’t have tears anymore. I’m run out of them. I think in some time owing to these circumstances I will lose hope and become an iceberg with no feelings at all.

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