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toria6118 Thu 31-Mar-16 18:31:53

An aquaintance of mine wants to start a family, via a surrogate from bulgaria. Bearing in mind neither him or his partner have fertility issues, more about him not wanting her to be traumatised by pregnancy or childbirth. Seems a bit odd if you ask me..

makingmiracles Sat 02-Apr-16 00:34:17

Very dodgy ground. It is techniqally illegal in Bulgaria although it was/is happening underhand so the Bulgarian government sanction surrogates from what I can gather. It also clearly states that a Bulgarian "substitute mother" as they are called there can only do it for couples with proven infertility. can't see there's anyway of getting round that as the clinic will ask for proof.

Of course you could be saying that the surrogate is in Britain but is from Bulgaria which would mean something else entirely- surrogacy in the uk for heterosexual couples can only be allowed when the couple cannot have a baby themselves, again clinics will ask for proof as will the courts when they try to apply for a parental order. Surrogacy is not an option just because you Dont want to go through pregnancy/childbirth.

BettyCrystal Sat 02-Apr-16 00:37:45

Not get traumatised by pregnancy / childbirth? Wait 'til they get the baby...

FloatyFlo Sat 02-Apr-16 00:48:04

So another poor woman has to go through trauma of pregnancy and childbirth instead??

Fucking hell. What a privileged plonker.

FloatyFlo Sat 02-Apr-16 00:48:52

Not get traumatised by pregnancy / childbirth? Wait 'til they get the baby...

grin gringrin

HairySubject Sat 02-Apr-16 00:51:59

That seems a little bizarre and I wonder if it is more not wanting to spoil her body with pregnancy and labour.

What does the wife in this situation think?

Noora Mon 16-Jan-17 01:11:16

Sounds so weird to me... It's kinda selfish to do so. Of course it's their own business, their lives&decisions. But as for the person who can't carry a baby because of health condition, this situation seems kinda offensive for me. What nonsense! If they worry that pregnancy may cause problems with weight or smth like that than it's the dumbest thing ever. How people can be so ungrateful? I'd be so happy to get pregnant and give birth by my own. Even though I'm happy we have an opportunity to use services of sm.

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