So my husband and I have been together for 14 years and he has always smoked weed on and off. He suffers from anxiety and after being on all different meds over the years, he uses this as a way to get through the day. His habit seems to be getting out of hand and he is spending £120 a week! It started off as £60 but he was going through it so fast and now he smoked £120 of it all from Friday-Sunday and is asking to get more. He says he will get £60 worth now and then only spend £60 on Friday when he gets paid. He hung up on me on his lunch break cause apparently I sound negative, because I said we couldn't afford it. We can't afford it, I am currently on maternity leave as well. He just goes in a mood if I try and speak to him, says I am nagging, says oh well I just won't work then etc. I don't know what to do anymore. He comes home and goes to smoke, sits all weekend and smokes. We have 2 small children and I am just over him being selfish. Our marriage feels like it is non existent and like I have 3 kids. He has no family here except his Dad who has no idea he smokes. Over our time together he has spent multiple years unemployed because of his anxiety so now he is doing well being able to work. I wouldn't have an issue if he smoked but could control himself better. I know people who smoke after work to wind down but not excessively. I just don't know what to do anymore.
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