So I am going out tommorow night for the first time in years. I need help!

[sunfleurs]

First night out in nearly three years, since dd was born.

I am clueless. Will be drinks maybe something to eat.

I am thinking Jeans (apparently weather is going to break tommorrow) with a vest top of some kind with a scarf or wrap like one of these here and a big slouchy bag of some kind.

Is this an ok look for someone in their mid thirties or am I going to look like mutton dressed as lamb?

[rubyslippers]

that looks fine

i do like a nice scarf/wrap altho' if it is going to be v hot then i wouldn#t bother

can your budget stretch to some fab bangles instead?

[Overmydeadbody]

It sounds fab, but agree with ruby, can you accesorise with a bit of jewelery instead of the scarf? (nothing wrong with the scarf though, don't worry!)

[sunfleurs]

Yes probably, thats a good idea, thanks. Just needed something to dress it up a bit.