Im struggling Im actually more like a 16 now and 33. I still go out socially most weeks, babysitters permitted, not mad clubbing but pubs, meals or wine bars. My taste has usually been quite mainstream with a bit of a boho edge. I went out with my sisters and friends at the weekend and they are all very leggings, gladiator sandals and long dress/tunics types. I was quite summery in strapless summery top, cropped jeans and heels. Felt ok but probably looked older than them. In the day they all wear leggings a lot, I did in winter with emus and woolen dresses, can't get away with them in summer. Im always in linen trousers! what do you wear? where do you shop?