Hi all. I have looked at this board for ages but only joined this morning as I urgently need help and you all seem so good at recommending clothes etc. My sister is getting married at Christmas and is having a huge wedding - will be lots of trendy London things there. The wedding is late in afternoon with most of the attention on the evening 'do' which is black tie... I don't want to wear something weddingy and floaty, more like somthing a bit trendy - even though I am 40 and a knac**ed mum! Am size 12-14, quite large boobs, and def do not want to show flabby arms!! Help!