Can I wear a black sparkly dress to a winter wedding?(11 Posts)
Unfortunately I am clueless when it comes to fashion and I'm panicking about a wedding coming up at the end of December. I've never attended a winter wedding before so I'm not sure if the "don't wear black to a wedding" etiquette still applies? And if its OK to wear any ideas on how to accessorise? I would probably wear black shoes as I have very large, awkward feet and find shoe shopping such a pain.
I've bought the dress as its the best of about 20 I've tried. I would have gone for the bronze but it's sold out in my size and not available in any local stores.
I've lost 6 stone so really wanted to treat myself to something a bit special instead of wearing something I already own (from before I gained all the weight) so if anyone can point me in the direction of a dress that might be more suitable?
I have pale skin, blue eyes and ginger hair and tend to suit emerald green, navy or cobalt blue, maroon or purple. I don't really like prints and would really like something with long sleeves as my arms are disgusting! I'd be looking for a size 16 ideally (but possibly an 18 if the fitting isn't so generous!)
Sad hopeful bump, as I'm still in a quandary about whether I should keep looking for another dress or not
Yes, you could wear black. Why not accessories with emerald or cobalt blue bag and hat/fascinator in either of those colours with a few black sparkly feathers and some crystals.
I think that is perfect and if you are slightly worried get a clutch or something to add a bit of colour x
I don’t think black at a wedding is seen as that “taboo” anymore. I’ve been to a few weddings this year and lots of people wore black dresses even in the summer. I agree with a pair of colourful shoes and some bling it would look lovely.
Or how about this as an alternative?
I honestly don't think I'd bat an eyelid at someone wearing black
or red for a wedding, even in the summer . White, I agree, is terribly bad form but the black/red thing is such an old wives tale that just doesn't apply in 2019.
I think that dress is lovely! I agree about a bright contrast of accessories, it will look great.
Looks good to me. The sparkle lifts it so it doesn't have a very black affect! (Effect?)
The bronze is now available for delivery in 1-2 weeks. Could you order it and then return the one you don't want ? I think the black would be ok but the bronze sounds like it would work well with your colouring - and also isn't black .
Black sparkly dresses In general are just fine for a winter wedding.
But you, my dear OP, cannot wear black . In fact I FORBID you to wear black because it’s not your best colour, as a pale skinned blue eyed red head.
Anyone who has done such as amazing thing as to lose 6 stone deserves to look FANTASTIC , not just OK.
So pop online and order that Next dress in bronze - it’s says it’s available for delivery in 1-2 weeks. So there’s a good chance you will get it in time.
And then start looking online for a back up in green, blue, maroon or purple.
BTW black shoes will be fine and you are more likely to wear them again.
I don’t know your style of course, but these are all
Maxi dress in a lovely green
Cobalt blue ( but the 18 might be too big for you )
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