wedding dress help

[Tabkat]

Have sorted dress but wondering whether I need a lace type bolero or some kind of other top. It is a December wedding, all in one place so no outside photos etc. Am v pale and not sure what to do for the best. Will add photo of dress on profile.

[sparklygothkat]

wow that is an amazing dress!!! I love it!!! don't think you should wear anything on your shoulders, it would distract from the wonderfulness of that dress

[Tabkat]

Thanks, love the dress as it pulls you right in round the waist (much needed!), just worried that my lily white skin will be like a beacon in the candlelight!

[sparklygothkat]

fake tan??

[Tabkat]

Whenever I've tried fake tan in the past I look like i am covered in gravy. I quite like being pale as it's different to a lot of people, maybe I should just go for it! (I will not be wearing my hair adorned with feathers as in the picture!)

[sparklygothkat]

what about a spray fake tan, they are supposed to be very natural. I am very pale too, I didn't bother for my wedding..

[Tabkat]

I tried a spray tan - one of those st tropez ones - and i just looked weird! Think I should just be pale and proud - am getting more worried about choosing music to suit both me and more conservative dh and guests!

[sparklygothkat]

mmmmm from looking at your profile, that is going to be hard

[Tabkat]

yes, df complies with most of my music requests in the car and has (nearly) been converted after 6 years of brainwashing. Not sure about others though..

[Tabkat]

Have also just had to let df know that my knowledge of Pol Pot was not to do with my fierce political brain or knowledge of the Britains' got talent winner but rather my liking for the Dead kennedys!