It's for a silver wedding and a wedding later on this year. I am wondering about shoes (would prefer flats), belt, cardigan (or does that make me ancient?) - silver wedding is next week and it has been so cold here today. I have fair colouring and freckles, natural auburn but dyed blonde as greying! Oh, and the picture is not me (I wish)! I am size 14. and 38. I have not been to an actual clothes shop in 5 years (young dc, no time) so everything is done on-line. I feel I have lost my touch somewhat so I have no idea about accessories these days. I would like to look nice (for once! Live in skinnies and t-shirts) Thanks.