Lost my mojo

[BagelDog]

I am being taken somewhere for my 40th birthday next month, don't know where, but apparently it is a jeans and heels kind of evening... question is what to wear on top? Just finished feeding third child so boobs feeling a bit deflated, back to normal size but less of a waist than ever, lost sight of what shape I am and what suits... hair a bit of a post baby disaster, too long, highlights very grown out, and the post baby regrowth is about 12cm all over and looks weird. Basically realised I haven't had a night out for ages and have lost sight of what suits me and what I want to look like... help! Need positive and inspiring and not overly middle-aged ideas!

[BrownEyedLady]

I'd wear a nice top that doesn't tuck in - somthing with a sparkle, silky or a bit of lace. Or a black top and then a lovely big necklace. A blazer type jacket can make a casual style look a bit more glam.

Can you book yourself in for a do the day before/on the day?

Happy 40th!

[BrownEyedLady]

Something like this?