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Early forties - blonde or brunette?

(10 Posts)
Newbrummie Fri 03-Feb-17 22:00:24

I have quite dark hair naturally with a couple of greys, could still pluck em out, that stage.
However I've been blonde for 20 years now. I used to be able to get lovely highlights done but the last 4 or 5 times frankly they've been stripey and shit and runined my hair.
I love the idea of shiny brown healthy hair but think I look a bit non descript, mousey with brown hair.
Trying to decide whether to find someone to sort the highlights out I guess or go natural.... is either less ageing ?

BrownEyedLady Fri 03-Feb-17 22:10:38

I have shiny brown hair (with a few greys - too many to pluck now but still not noticeable). I think healthy looking hair is more a sign of youth than colour. Have you had a colour consultation? My hairdressers are great at that, and are honest about what would/wouldn't work.

KittyOShea Fri 03-Feb-17 22:17:09

I have had a substantial amount of grey since my mid 30s (now early 40s). I have naturally mousy/ fair hair and was brunette for a long time. As the grey increased keeping it hidden became impossible as even a tiny bit of root regrowth highlighted the grey immediately. Blonde highlights have worked much better as the greys just blend in and I can go around 8 weeks before getting colour done instead of 4.

Newbrummie Fri 03-Feb-17 22:19:48

Arghhhhh 50/50 so far. This always happens. My colouring works for both tbh. My preference would be blonde if it didn't keep getting stuffed up. And I am growing it so maybe natural is the way to go confused

Californiasoul Fri 03-Feb-17 22:28:06

I'm mid forties and brunette (natural). I have lightened the brown as I've got older though as my skin seems to be paler than it was when I was younger. I'm olive skinned and look really fake and dodgy with blonde highlights.
I use a semi permanent colour, L'Oreal Creme Gloss to cover up my greys

Californiasoul Fri 03-Feb-17 22:30:01

In your case I'd stick with blonde. I do think blonde hair stands out more and generally looks more glamorous.

NotTodaySatan Fri 03-Feb-17 22:30:58

I think it entirely depends on your colouring and what suits you best.

Any chance of a photo? Would be easy to say that way.

BornStroppy Sun 05-Feb-17 07:37:17

If you're trying to look youthful....brunette is probably better isn't it? Everyone opts for blonde when they start greying....

marmiteloversunite Sun 05-Feb-17 07:41:06

Sounds like you need to find a new colourist. Ask people with great looking blonde hair where they go for colour. I finally went grey after a disastrous colour job where I ended up with orange stripes after four hours at the hairdressers. Left it to nature then and rocking my own platinum highlights now.

Fluffycloudland77 Sun 05-Feb-17 08:13:52

I'm a couple of years behind you & my hair textures definitely coarser & prone to little flyaway bits mid length which I mistook for breakages but is actually similar to how mums hair went.

I use swartzkopf q10 shampoo etc for fragile damaged/aged hair and it's sorted it right out.

Yy to new colourist though.

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