I'm 55 and starting the menopause. My hair is just killing what little confidence I have left in myself. Sorry, I know that sounds dramatic but I am honestly getting to the point where I dread going out. I have always had very fine hair but there was always plenty of it and it used to be shiny and in good condition.
Nowadays I'm probably 95% grey and have my hair coloured professionally every 5 weeks and cut at the same time (I'm not ready to go grey yet!) My hair feels dry even though I condition it after every wash. I know I shouldn't wash it every day but my hair honestly looks like a birds nest when I get up and no amount of damping it down will get it back into a style. To get any sort of body in it I use the Babylis Big Hair heated brush and my hair can look quite nice when first styled but it now reacts to the slightest humidity in the air. I can literally sit at work and feel my hair texture start to change. Not only does it frizz but it becomes scraggy and flat and I end up looking like a scarecrow.
I use lots of products on my hair each day to try to help. I use a heat protecting serum I buy from my hairdresser, Argan Oil and a styling mousse. Once a month I give my hair a deep conditioning treatment so it is not as though I am not trying.
I have to tie my hair back when it starts to frizz but because it is fine I have lots of short bits (even though my hair is a shoulder length bob ) and I end up looking like a mad professor. Also, tying it up makes me look quite severe so it's not a great look.
I'm so upset tonight as my husband made a comment about my hair tonight which wasn't very nice. This has upset me so much we have just had an argument about it. I think he feels bad now but he can't take it back and I'm so upset and know I'm going to be even more self conscious.
Is there anyone else out there in the same boat that has any suggestions of what I can try/do?
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Icequeen01 · 28/07/2016 22:20
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