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If you wax your bikini line religiously...

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AyeAmarok Sun 16-Aug-15 20:07:11

How do you feel about sex in between waxes?

Are you completely unbothered about it? Or do you feel the need to warn/apologise to your DH beforehand? Or avoid it?!

I'm not okay with it, DH says he doesn't care, and probably wouldn't notice because men's hair is so much more coarse. I'd like to be okay with it!

Googlers123 Sun 16-Aug-15 20:20:43

See this is what I just don't understand about waxing. Sure it's nice to be all smooth and hair free but what about the time in between when you're growing it to an acceptable length for the next wax. Shaving or creams are surely a much better option if you're worried about the in between stage

PUGaLUGS Sun 16-Aug-15 20:23:23

After 28 years of marriage DH takes my bikini line as he finds it grin. I prefer it to be smooth but it isn't always.

Doobigetta Sun 16-Aug-15 20:26:19

If you get it done every month it's only really the last week that the regrowth is really noticeable. It's people who swim regularly I wonder about.

UnsolvedMystery Sun 16-Aug-15 20:35:28

I cannot comprehend being so concerned about the style of my pubic hair that I wouldn't have sex!!!
I shave the lot a couple of times a month because I like it smooth but don't like shaving every day. I can't be arsed with waxing (scared it will hurt). That keeps it trim the rest of the time but even if I leave it for weeks, it still wouldn't put me or DH off sex.

spanky2 Sun 16-Aug-15 20:35:41

I don't think men care, they're getting sex!! Although to be fair I'm middle aged and been with the same guy for twenty years!!!

SkatesMcgee Sun 16-Aug-15 20:39:35

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SylvanianCaliphate Sun 16-Aug-15 20:39:54

I don't like this trend toward hair free fannies.

I've spent many, many years training DP to be grateful that I've showered in the last few days never mind bloody bald.

NotReallyAPrincess Sun 16-Aug-15 20:43:22

I'm an adult woman who grows pubes. He's an adult man who's lucky enough to get to put his p in my v.

Absolutely this. If DP needed to be warned about the appearance of my pubic hair then we wouldn't be having the sex. Everyone knows that waxing = some re growth.

AyeAmarok Sun 16-Aug-15 20:48:06

Oh I don't go completely bare, that's not my style. But I take it in at the sides and all off underneath.

I don't apologise as in "I am very sorry, I've done a terrible thing" grin but I do sort of feel the need to give a warning to DH, just a "I've not waxed" heads up before he gets there, to which the answer is always a resolute "I don't care". But still, I need to tell him first.

Unsolved Don't you find it very coarse at the day-or-two-after-shaving stage?

UnsolvedMystery Sun 16-Aug-15 22:56:31

There is a day about 3 days after shaving, when it's a bit rough, but it goes soft very quickly (by the next day). I've been shaving for such a long time now that I have perfected my technique and it works really well for me. I can cope with a bit of stubble for 1 day smile

GinAndSonic Sun 16-Aug-15 23:00:24

I have never warned about or apologised for my pubic hair. Tbh, the guy im sleeping with at the minute fully expects hairy legs and pits, and doesnt give a shit about that or my pubes.

Mandelinka Sun 16-Aug-15 23:09:52

Amen to that ⬆️

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