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But overall, it is possibly because you have narrow shoulders. I have and find there are lots of styles I cannot wear (bras) due to the wide spacing of the straps- usually balconette styles.
Also- wearing a shoulder bag can give you a dropped shoulder. This has happened to me and I now try to only use across the body or hand held bags. Shoulder bags can cause a lot of postural problems in later life.
A good tip is to wear sleeveless and tuck in the edge of the top over the bra strap, it should keep it up reasonably well, in addition if the strap falls its much easier to push it back up without a sleeve in the way.
Also I forgot to add, only tighten the strap if the back doesnt ride up, a too tight strap will make the back ride up and will make the problem worse, sometimes adjustment can only make the falling less frequent but not fix it, it can take time to get right.
You could try one of those plastic clips, which give you semi-crossed bra straps.
I sometimes do this when I am wearing a sleeveless top. Only a couple of my bras have straps which are long enough, and it's a real struggle to get the clip engaged across the middle of my back without help.
It's also quite uncomfortable, as the straps cut into my shoulders, but you are really harnessed-in and nothing can cause you to drop or flop!