I like Estee Lauder Double Wear mascaras as they last really well on me.
Lipstick depends on the formula, but Mac matte and retro matte formulas last well. Applied with a brush most lipsticks last better than straight from the bullet ime. Guerlain lipsticks are also very nice, but not matte.
I use the Clinique Take The Day Off eye makeup remover (and cleansing balm).