Please help! I have absolutely no idea about hair product these days, last time I significantly used anything was at school in the 80s, and that was crunchy hair mousse! I use a bit of hairspray now to keep things in place, but really need educating on what's available now and how to use it... I have naturally curly/frizzy hair which I blow dry and sometimes straighten... It's then very floppy and flat.. Going au naturel isn't an option! I just want something that will hold a style without it being all hard and crunchy.. Thanks!!