Tell me I'm being stupid

[goodasitgets]

I had my hair cut today, pretty drastically. I tend to not wear it down, ever. Mainly because of a long history of bullying and snide comments over my hair. I like the new cut BUT it was meant to be able to be tied up, and it's too short
Now I'm panicking
Ridiculous I know

[squoosh]

I don't think you're being stupid but I do think you are still affected by the bullying. If you've always worn your hair a certain way it can take a while to be comfortable with a new hairstyle. You know your new hair looks good, keep telling yourself that and ready yourself for all the compliments.

Worst comes to worst you just need to wait a few weeks till it grows a bit.

[goodasitgets]

I am, I know that. Just having a moment that people will laugh at me
I'm veering between that and then thinking actually it will break me of my habit of wearing it up

[dottytablecloth]

Post a picture so we can admire it! I'm sure it looks gorgeous

[goodasitgets]

It's so hard to take a photo of! (Excuse my spotty skin)

[lisej]

Your hair is beautiful and that cut looks fab! It will inspire deep hair envy, not laughter.

[AWholeLottaNosy]

Wow you have lovely hair! Naturally curly and in such good condition. You should definitely wear it down and show it off.

[PicnicGatecrasher]

Well I love it for starters!! That is one amazing hairdo!

[TheCowThatLaughs]

It's really nice and suits you! Bet you'll end up going shorter next time...

[squoosh]

It's really gorgeous!

Curly hair is on my wishlist for my next life. Along with long legs and olive skin.

[AWholeLottaNosy]

Can I ask why people bullied you because of your hair?

[Thurlow]

No one is going to laugh - that's a fantastic cut!

[prettywhiteguitar]

Ooh noooo ! I love it, I love ringlets my friend has a bob like this with her brown curly hair.

Uber jealous !

[goodasitgets]

Why? Because of the colour and the curls. Mainly the colour. I've coloured it into oblivion but it's back to natural colour at the moment
It was so bad when I was younger I wouldn't even sleep with it down

[UterusUterusGhali]

It's lovely!
Really fab!

[Flibbertyjibbet]

It's lovely! Get some twisted sista products and be proud of your

[Flibbertyjibbet]

Hair!!!! Be proud of your hair!!

[furcoatbigknickers]

Its really lovely

[Flibbertyjibbet]

I bet your hairdresser did it on purpose so you can't put it up...

[goodasitgets]

Ha! Was actually a new girl, usual one is on maternity, and the one that made it shorter last time is also on maternity now

[MidnightHag]

Full of for your beautiful hair!

[goodasitgets]

squoosh - I have the long legs at 5ft 10 but am so pale that Caspar would be jealous

[AWholeLottaNosy]

That's such a shame you were bullied for your hair. These things can leave a lasting legacy but I hope these comments are helping you. Those bullies were stupid and jealous. Your hair is a real asset to you!

[Oscarandelliesmum]

It is fab, you look great. I too would looooove hair like yours!

[goodasitgets]

Its when people stare or look that I struggle. Guess I'm thinking they are wanting to take the piss. Part of me knows they are probably just looking straight through me and not noticing but it's such a hard thing to shake off

[RoRoRosie]

It's beautiful - the colour, the cut, the curls (proper ones not my frizzy mess). And it suits you and looks lovely with those glasses.

It would be a crime to put up hair like that .