I used to use tweezermans but there are just too many of the little buggers.
I now use Nair for sensitive skin - not the facial stuff though. Its about £1 a tube. I don't think its doing my skin any favours but its the only thing that works. I try not to use it more than twice a week and inbetween I use those little emery board things.
Oh and keep my hair long and around my face so its less noticeable.
SoleSource I have also struggled with this issue, but joy of joys laser pretty much sorted it out. I don't want to be nosy, but do you know why it didn't work for you? Are there any different options of alternative types of laser you could pursue maybe?