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I've just treated myself to some new specs and the opticians are full of similar to the ones you linked to. I'm 40 so had similar concerns! I went with the heavy Black plastic frame but a more cats eye shape. The squarer shape seemed to have lots of lens under the eye therfore showing off my eye bags in their full glory! I think with an oval shaped face though you can pretty much pick any style and it will suit.
I'm due new glasses and my approach is not to care what's in fashion but just to pick something that suits me. Go and try on as many pairs as you can in as many stores as you can, if you can, take someone else with you as they can help you narrow down your choices. Don't be suckered in to buying something just because it's fashionable. If it suits, that's fine but classic styles that really suit your face can look just as trendy as something ultra modern and if you know something suits, you'll feel better about wearing them
I go to specsavers which I always assumed would be a kind of basic value, in-and-out-quick kind of deal. But actually they (and maybe other places too) have staff who are trained to help you pick frames that suit your face and your taste.
I was really surprised the first time when the bloke who had been doing my paperwork came over and started advising me on frames and using all kinds of fashiony phrases But it really helped. I pointed out things I liked (and they never make you feel silly for what you choose - I really fancied purple frames and pointed at some - the assistant found me some others that were a nicer purple, better shape and suited me more).
I like the ones in your OP but I agree with LittleLady too, what suits you is more important than current styles.
first, the frame style will be partly dictated by your lenses - thicker lenses won't work in some frames. second, by what you see best with. Rectangles look a lot better on many people but you do lose some field of view. (OK, I admit it - I compromised on this and went for rectangles, such vanity!) third, consider durability. fourth, ask for what suits your face shape. fifth, look at prices.
THEN make a choice!
never a good look - anything showing someone else's name or brand name, diamante, anything a teen celeb wears.
In Specsavers you pay double just to have a garish brand name emblazoned down the side. I mean, who wants to walk around with "Tommy Hilfiger" or "Karen Millen" down the side of your face? I made a point of chosing something from the unbranded range. The assistant muttered something about higher quality, but that's bollocks - you are just paying for the branding. Grrrr....
Our local SpecSavers is useless wrt staff, but the marvlous thing about SpecSavers is you can go on the website, upload a pic of yourself and superimpose different glasses. You can then just go into a store with a shortlist.
LOL at the notion of me wearing glasses fit for hipster land.
I hear what you're saying re just getting the glasses that suit you - and that is obviously fail-safe advice which I usually dish out myself. I suppose I just meant that it has been years since I was in the market and I'm massively out of touch.
I should add that I'm not in the UK and so we don't have Specsavers, Boot, et al, but then I googled and it turns out we do have Specsavers, so I guess that is my next port of call.
I prefer to look for ideas online and I then ask my lovely independent optician to get the frames in for me. If it turns out that I don't like them, they just return them (or keep them for someone else). Specsavers and the rest won't do that for you. Re styles: I think cats eye shapes are flattering as they kind of lift your cheekbones. And personally I always avoid black frames. My last two frames have been from Face-a- Face; sorry, I'm just rushing out but, if you google, you'll find them or I can find the link later. They're not cheap but I wear my specs practically 24/7 so, for me, it's worth it. Have fun, I love my glasses!