Dress for the palace!(58 Posts)
Yes! I am going to Buckingham Palace - tad excited, will be on my best behaviour BUT I need a dress so please could I have some help
I'm about a size 10 5'3'', don't like having arms or legs on show so would either have to wear a cardi or have long-sleeves. Also, don't like clingy or red. So aside from those demands I'm open to trying things (places which have free post returns wuld be good as I'd probably need ot buy lots and try on then return)
I'm just goign to go to the shops and try on some things but thanks for any links for when I get back
Molly I had a blue and white silk drop waisted dress with a big bow on one hip (very trendy at the time - 1991). White court shoes, white hat with ribbon trim and white gloves. I recall I ended up not wearing the gloves as it was a blisteringly hot day.
That's a bit crap! Do they let you use upstairs instead, i.e. the main cathedral!
thenightsky What did you end up wearing/hiring?
BoffinMum you don't if you get a knighthood! Only an OBE or MBE can't remember which one or if it's both
One of the perks is being able to use the British Empire Chapel in St Paul's Cathedral for christenings, weddings and so on. We had a child of ours christened there (outs self a bit as well) and it was amazing!
I think you get a big bling medal and a little modest pin on one in the same box, if I remember correctly.
OP... I had to do The Palace when 8 months pg!
I found hiring stuff gave me the best value for money. It cost me about £80 for a dress, hat and gloves.
Hope you both have a fabulous celebration, and congratulations too on the OBE.
I've just looked up your mum - her work is amazing and so needed, I always so insignificant when I hear abotu the work of people getting honours!
A knighthood? Wow! That's fab!
My mum's getting an OBE for services to education in developing countries (totally outs self!)
Thanks for the tip re the hand cream - that's totally the kind of thing I do on a regular basis <sigh>
Oh wow, Molly, that's awesome. Have a brilliant day! Congratulations. Enjoy.
Thanks for all the tips and thanks Waswondering for what happened when you went - it sounds absolutely lovely! Congrats to your mum
It's for a knighthood and i'll see if I can get something for them for christmas. (He got given two plastic swords when it was announced so we've had the tacky stuff)
Will be sure to test out the hand cream too! Posh toilets are always fascinating
Just beware the hand cream in the ladies (very naice) ....the pump action thing was enthusiastic resulting in a very narrow miss of hand cream on outfit.
Obviously the ladies was our first port of call!
Enjoy your day. May I ask what the investiture is for? My mum. Got it for services to charity and nursing. Some of the military honours were very humbling.
Forgot to say, mum was mobbed by tourists afterwards who wanted photos with her and her medal!
If you are looking for a Christmas gift, you can get an MBE stud thing, like a tiny pin broach, if they wanted that on a lapel. It's very discrete.
Waswondering - that sounds fantastic! I'm really excited now. We're having a lunch do too which will be very welcome after dieting for two months to get into my dress!
Congratulations to your mum
(Not this July, a couple of years back now!)
It was the best day, op.
Mum was taken away when we arrived and we got to drift into the ballroom, pinching ourselves that we were there. Hers was in
July and dad had a lunch for 30 afterwards so I wore a Laura Ashley prom dress in black and white, with a fitted black bolero over. I was complimented on it by a member of palace staff, and she asked me where I got it as she thought it would be perfect for her brothers wedding.
My sil wore a monsoon dress. My mum (MBE ) wore a head to toe Jacques Vert outfit, which was very her.
Lots of shift dresses. Arms were generally covered. Nice hats, or if not, very "finished" hair.yes to the others who likened it to a wedding.
I think a nicely tailored trouser suit with heels could be your friend.
I didn't wear anything in my hair, due to a self inflicted tantrum of getting my zip up alone before the taxi came. I had helped mum dress then everyone went off to mill around and dh was taking photos, so there was just me, and the hair thing was abandoned. Sil wore a beautiful fascinatior.
The investiture was beautiful. It lasted around an hour, and a jolly band played throughout. Rod Stewart, members of the English cricket team, and James Dyson, of Hoover fame, were all honoured too, so celebrity spotting was fun! We had a lunch party afterwards. Alongside my own wedding, it's the best day I've had.
They offer you a DVD afterwards which is worth buying, as somehow they get it so that your person is highly featured. That was lovely.
Hope yours is wonderful too. Enjoy.
You won't look out of place in a suit (whether trouser, skirt or dress) or a smart dress.
Try Coast, Hobbs, Jaeger, LK Bennett, Reiss and ASOS
As a size 10 you do not need to hide your legs, but anything much above the knee or any cleavage woukd be a no-no for me.
Molly, it's one -I have to wear my hair in a bun at the nape of my neck so that I can keep it on
Wow I like those trousers! They are a bit more out there than I'd normally wear but definitely on my to try list.
Thanks 29chapel - I've just had a look at Covetique and there looks like some good stuff (I didn't realise how much Juicy courture velour tracksuits cost too!)
Hi mollyroses. My navy tuxedo trousers were by Paul and Joe (found in TK's clearance :-) the trouser suit was by The Kooples. You could dress up a tailored suit with a statement necklace and or fascinator?
Whilst I appreciate it's necessary to be super smart, I also wanted to look like myself and not frumpy, I love fashion.... The shoes were Zara black suede- very comfortable for lots of standing and photos.
Good luck! ps I like Covetique- its a great online 2nd hand designer shop, worth a look.
I've attended an investiture there. There are formal photos taken after the event in the courtyard.
Most women wore shift dresses and matching coats etc. Some wore hats though I didn't.
There is a lot of sitting and clapping for an extended amout of time. I loved that the band played High
Society while we were waiting for the service to start.
As we came down to London for the event we did not have a car so our taxi dropped us off at the gates. Walking in high heels over the gravel was challenging to say the least esp when tourists were busy taking pics of us! Others had cars which they had registered prior yo attending
Ok, I can't find the exact thing on the website but how about this
www.topshop.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/ProductDisplay?searchTerm=wrap&storeId=12556&productId=10928671&urlRequestType=Base&categoryId=&langId=-1&productIdentifier=product&catalogId=33057 in a dusky pink with smart trousers (the pink version is actually a jump suit but it's super short so could pass as a top)
Thanks for all the advice so far.
It is an investiture and I've googled pictures/dress code and it to be honest it looks like nothing I'd ever wear! It's not me getting it - I'm just going along.
29chapel your outfits sound lovely where did you get your black skinny trouser suit from?
OldRoan yes I'm ok to wear those 140 denier tights with a dress but it would have to be a last resort, I would do it because I had to rather than I wanted to iyswim.
CatelynStark I'm probably going to the same one as you! Your hat sounds good - how big is big?! Doesn't have a stuffed bird perched on it or anything does it?
sugarandspite I completely appreciate I have a problem, I don't want to show anything for personal not religous/cultural reasons. I've put on 10kg recently and am REALLY not happy about myself. The whole not liking myself is bigger than an outfit for this event but I just need to get through this then I can go back to my nice big winter jumpers
BoffinMum Thanks for the advice - I'd literally never think of taking anything with me apart from my phone and tissues. One of my hotel sewing kits will now finally have some use!
Waswondering Thanks, I don't think we'll have anyone waiting to take photos as my close family is all going. What did you wear when you went to your mum's investiture?
And for anyone that's been, what was the day like?!
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