How can I get out of a rut with my clothing and underwear?
I am a product of my DM; she was very conservative in her clothing. She never wore branded clothing or clothing with slogans/images (a discrete logo was as far as it went), her undies always matched - either white, nude or black - never colour; in general it was very bland, although it was her IYSWIM. The most "far out" thing she wore was a hot pink jacket over a navy dress for my wedding - she looked fab, but took it off as quickly as possible!
I've lost weight (yay!) and I'm starting to replace clothing as and when I can. And I've realised that I have nothing in my wardrobe that isn't like my DM's was! Everything I have is self-coloured apart from 3 stripey tops; there is no pattern anywhere other than my tartan PJ's.
I've been looking round shops, and I see a top and think - I like that, friend x wears a top in a style similar to that and looks great, but I can't wear that. And there is no reason why I shouldn't try it on - other than I think it's not "me" and people will laugh at me and think I'm trying to be something I'm not. I recently purchased a top from Debenhams with flowers on it (this one and got a load of compliments when I wore it. But to be honest, it was a "I'm not sure, but desperately need a top" purchase.
I don't have many female friends that I can go shopping with - and I don't know how to break the mind set that I can't wear things that are not plain as they aren't what I wear!
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CarpeJugulum · 02/02/2013 09:14
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