DH and I have had a few ups and downs of late. I'm very perimenopausal. We have young DC and we both work (not full time), juggle, and I'm also a painter and been working towards an upcoming solo show.
I've been off sex for a couple of months - which is really unlike me. But I just don't want him to touch me. I can't explain it. Last night, the first night in a LONG time we've chilled out, watched Sopranos, had a takeaway - but then I still didn't want sex.
Can't work it out. I know I feel tense and closed up. But I really don't want this to become an issue. And I believe relationships need a good sex life. And I want a good sex life.
Any clues as to what's happening or what I should do to move things forward?