This is not a stealth boast, but a genuine problem. I've always looked younger than my age, but just recently it's really started to bother me. I've just turned 30, but in the past week, 2 people have told me I look 18. Once was in a work situation, and once I informed the lady in question of my real age, her attitude towards me changed completely (started taking what I was saying more seriously!). The other was at a playgroup with dd, a lady there with her granddaughter said to me 'You look very young to be a mum'. When I told her I was 30, she almost passed out. When I was pregnant with dd, a man said to me that it looked immoral that I was pregnant, as I only look 12! (he actually knew I was older, but somehow didn't recognise that this was an offensive thing to say).
So can anyone put their finger on what makes someone look older or younger? I'm of very petite build, so I'm sure that's part of the problem. My hair's long (bra strap length), which I know might not be helping, but I work in a profession related to hair, so I'm reluctant to cut it short. For work I try to dress very smartly, smart dress/jacket, always heels, so I was particularly surprised by the comment when I was at work. Other times I tend to wear jeans and a plain t-shirt, with Converse trainers, so I appreciate this might not be doing me any favours. But I do have a toddler to run round after! I think I do decent make-up, but perhaps darker eyes or something would be better? I'm very pale, with mousy blonde hair with highlights.
What also concerns me is that I quite often have to attend work functions with my husband, who is 34, but looks it, if not older, and I worry what people must think when they see me.
I know it probably seems like I'm creating a problem out of nothing, and I know I'll appreciate looking young when I'm older (how many times have I heard that?). I don't mind not looking 30, but I just want to look like a grown-up!
Any advice much appreciated/views from others in a similar situation.
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ThePetiteMummy · 22/09/2011 22:30
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