I just had to share this with any other mums who were struggling like me.
My daughter has soft afro curly hair, which used to be a permenant frizz and i had no idea how to tame it. I kept just scraping it back and tying it into tight plaits, but it never helped and was always just a way to sort out the mess. My friend then recommended a trichologist to me, Teresa Angelina Richardson, who she said would be able to help.
Teresa makes all her own products and there is one in particular, the leave - in hair protector which i can only describe as magic on my daughters hair... i dont know how it works but i just work a little into her hair after its washed and twist it into curls like teresa showed me and it dries naturally into perfect smooth ringlets. no need for hair driers and no more frizz!!!!! now i even use it on my hair too.