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think this little clutch bag would go nicely with it? pick out the pink

as for the shoes these are lovely though may be too high? not sure

no joy with the cardie yet! what about a little jacket?

silly me, you said cardie OR jacket....long day!

Gorgeous dress

Lovely dress. I'd go for silver shoes - either with silver clutch, or dusty pink, as suggested already. But wouldn't go for pink shoes and bag - a bit too 'matchy' and also not very autumnal.

Afraid I have no great ideas on cardigan/ jacket. Would think a cropped jacket might be more 'weddingy' - perhaps in a pearly grey/ silvery colour, to pick up the grey in the dress? L K Bennett can be a good place for that sort of thing.

If you fancy a cardigan, you might want to look at the cropped cardis in wool and in cashmere in the new Boden autumn range - they usually get good reviews and there sems to be a good choice of colurs.

shoes

I wore these to a wedding at the weekend, comfy and smart ;)