DP helped me clear out some space today - I have hoarding tendencies and I really need someone to make me do it, iyswim. We tackled my wardrobe.
I have removed six bin-bags worth of stuff.
Most of it was stuff that just didn't fit, at all, and hadn't when I bought it. Some of it were size 41 shoes I bought with the vain hope that my size 42 feet would fit into them (it is SO hard to find anything to suit me.) A lot of it made me feel like I was a fat, formerly frumpy spendthrift.
Now I have a lovely looking space for my clothing but I can't believe the mound of bags downstairs waiting for me to decide what to do with them!
I work 9-5 and the charity shop isn't open on my way to work, otherwise I could get rid of it a bag at a time! Might be a weekend job. DP suggests it should just go in the bin and that's it gone from my life, but that seems like such a waste.
I feel pretty depressed at how much money I've wasted, frankly.
Charity shop first thing Saturday morning. Think of all the good that will come of giving it away. Someone who really needs those new shoes and really can't afford them will get a nice surprise and the charity gets money. Win-win!
I don't know if you have anything like this near you, but we have clothes banks in our local park where you can take clothes and shoes, and they are taken to Africa to be sold or donated. Obviously you can do this any time of the day or night, so it might help you if you can't get to a charity shop during their opening hours.
Don't waste energy being depressed about past mistakes. Think ahead to the organised, well dressed person you are going to be from now on!
eBay not an option, I am really disorganized and tend to get the admin stuff wrong which leads to unhappy customers. It's harder for sellers as buyers expect professional service which I'm not able to give.
I really don't have the space to keep stuff around, as well, which is a pain. I'm much taller and bigger (feet/bust etc.) than friends which is tricky as it's nice to pass things on.
When I was moving house, I had several big bags full of clothes, books and other assorted toot. One of the charity shops gave me a number to ring when I wanted them collecting. They gave me all the bags too! I think most charity shops have a bloke who will pick stuff up in a van, so it's worth asking.
Ah, I'm more overwhelmed by how much time and money I've wasted collecting this stuff! I remember ordering various things online, or the queue in the shop - silly, I know, but it all seems like such a crap use of resources when it's all sitting in binbags.
The time and money was already wasted yesterday and the day before - nothing has changed there. The only difference is that you now have space and bags of stuff you don't need or want. Take them to the charity shop at the weekend and make a new years resolution only to buy things that fit you, suit you and make you feel good.