I have bought 5 (count 'em!) dresses from Phase Eight, and am very happy with the way they skim over my midsection. But I'm not happy with the tights I bought from M&S. I got black opaque ones, and bought large ones in the hope that I could hoik them over my (disastrous) tummy. But they roll down and leave me with multiple stomachs. I have some old maternity tights which come up nice and high but are a big baggy. Where can I get some tights that pull up really high, almost to my bra - and it's a very long journey over my tummy which manages to be both bloated, blubbery and saggy - that aren't too supportive (as I find too much constriction on my tummy very uncomfortable).
I asked this question at a party and managed to clear the room in a few seconds so hopefully I'll have more success on tinterweb.
I buy my opaques from Primark - they are generally v long in the body and can be pulled up to bra level. The sizes are fairly generous, I wear the XL ones (am a size 20) and they are v comfortable and not constricting.