Hi, I used to post on step-parenting a few years ago when helping bring up my ex's ds. We had a good relationship, he's now all grown up and at uni! ex and I parted our ways and I am lone p with two dc.
A year ago I met a lovely man, also lone p, who has two dc. Mine are 4 and 7, his approaching teens. Recently we spent a lot of time together and it has raised a lot of questions about the future. Basically, it confirmed we love each other as partners, but that there will be serious issues with the dc, my ds in particular who has been resisting the situation with lots of bad behaviour and unhappiness. My partner's dc are becomine more relaxed but are v used to having their dad to themselves, are naturally wary of change, and also a lot quieter and more conservative than my family. This week we are spending time apart with our dc and I need to do some serious thinking, as I don't know where it is all going but I do know the horrible consequences of family break ups and also that sharing other's dc is challenging as well as rewarding. Any advice would be so much appreciated! thanks
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ninah · 03/08/2009 09:02
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