Not sure if this is the best place for this question, but I'm looking for advice.
I've been with my parter for 10 years. We have children together. He had an affair and it resulted in the other woman getting pregnant. The little girl is 2 now and my partner will soon be applying for contact.
Does anyone have any experience of this type of situation? Any ideas on how we can go around contact?
The ideal way would be to treat the situation as though it was a typical "step-child from a previous relationship" situation but I feel I may not cope with that due to the nature of my partner and this other woman's previous relationship.
I would be interested in hearing how anyone established contact like this. Did your partner visit the child in the mother's home? Were you involved a lot more from the start? What boundaries did you put up from the start and made the other woman aware of?
Thank you for any advice in advance xx
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SFC80 · 09/06/2009 20:46
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