Long story but here goes!!!
I'm a step mum to my Dh's son who's 8, the ex partner got pregnant by having her coil taken out on the sly so their Ds was born.
Anyway Dh left the ex as he was tired of their relationship and her nastiness,Dh was traumatised for leaving his son aged 2.5 at the time but remained in complete contact at all times and paid all dues, 3 months after they seperated we met on a blind date and since then have married and had 2 fab children. Ss still came over for the weekend every 2 weeks and the ex hated the thought of me being there.
after many court battles (long story of her just trying to win Dh back and taking it out on their son by not letting him see his dad) she has come to the point of refusing to let Ss over at all and no contact at all. Dh has not seen him now for 4 months (we still have b'day and xmas prezzies for Ss) she phone d my Dh on boxing day and said "you left ,you pay the consequences" all i can say is what do we do,court papers say we have him every 2 weeks for the weekend ,so where do we stand??? (have phoned and texted the ex but she refuses to answer) she is in a relationship with a guy who has moved in with her and she has 2 kids from a previous marriage who also don't see their father either!!!! so WHAT NOW???????
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help me i could cry!!!!!!
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louee · 20/03/2005 13:14
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