what do you think.......
We have got all the children (2 my own,2 dsd) a diary with a key so they can write down what is bothering them. The 2 dsd's are told by their mother not to tell us whats going on and we have had them in tears on more than one occasion bcos she has told them were going to split and they'll have no dad, or that they'll go to school with no shoes, dinner money cos dad won't give her money (which he always has) etc and other numerous things that have had them worried so instead of bottling it up to write it down....
Both the dsd's are 7 and trust us completely. What i wanted to know was do you think we should look in their diaries to see what is bothering them so in a completely adult way we can bring the conversation round to what is bothering them and sort it without them even knowing...We are not interested in what is going on in their mothers house just the affect it is having on their little heads. I think with them being younger and not wanting to upset us its a good idea but would prob think twice if they were older. We have reassured them that nothing will stop our love for them ever but sometimes what mum says sticks.....
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jojostar · 07/09/2008 09:18
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