Does anyone else read things on here sometimes and feel like SPs are expected to prioritise their DSC over their own DC?
I feel it from my own husband sometimes too.
But I refuse. My DC will always, always be my priority, yes I love them more, yes I care more, and yes I want to treat them more.
I will take them on holiday if I can afford to whether or not DH can afford to take his DC. I'll not make them save all fun and days out for when their half siblings are here. I will not reduce any inheritance they receive so it can be split 'equally'. I will not tell my parents they can't buy more presents at Christmas and birthdays for their own grandchild. I will not stop treating them to nice things if I want to just because I can't afford 3 lots of it.
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My DC will always be my priority
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MarkUp · 06/05/2021 08:01
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