My husband and I are about to visit his 3 children (aged 8, 10 and 13) in Australia for the 1st time, since his ex-wife took them there over a year ago. Since their departure their father and I got married. To cut a long story short ? whilst when I first met the kids (a year before they went we got on very well). When the ex-wife realised how well and to ensure that they told the courts that they wanted to emigrate, she tried every trick in the book to estrange them from my husband and I. Whilst her actions did not manage to estrange their father by the time they went, they were extremely hostile towards me. Although they are settled in Australia, their mother is still very aggressive towards my husband and from past experience, I have no doubt that she will try to upset them before hand. The kids are looking forward to see their father but I am deeply worried that I will receive a hostile reception. Their father is so desperate for things to go well, I?m dreading a situation where the kids are overjoyed to see him but foul to me. If this happens, how should I handle it? I want everything to go well but am frankly scared at the moment.
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First Visit to Step Children since their emigration
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greeboclovis · 20/10/2004 21:22
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